5 tips to keep your relationship Alive

We all are living a stressed out and a rapid paced life. There are a lot of deadlines that we need to meet on a daily basis. Keeping up with the flying and evolving world around us, we have stopped thinking about the real beauty of our lives. Going behind the materialistic aspects of life, we have forgotten the real meaning of life and stopped enjoying our relationships.

Lack of time, strength and zeal are some of the major factors that affect the quality of the relations we have around us. This doesn’t mean that we are apart, the love has gone or we just don’t like it anymore, however we are lacking the expression which si yet again an extremely imperative element that supports a great relation.

Coming late from work, running around the home chores, kids, deadlines, cooking, grocery, bills, EMI and much more trap us strongly and we tend to forget the real happiness lies un being together or rather being happy together.

Marriage is a beautiful bond that connects us, gives a meaning to our lives, while being a commitment that stays and gets stronger by the year we spend with our loved ones.

Here are a few tips that would add the spark and the zeal back in your life, while make sure to follow them often:

1. Keep exploring through each other and play around

When the know it all stage comes, things tend to get monotonous, indeed, so get on exploring each other together, discover the new interests and current state of minds of your partner. Keep a box and keep adding the best moment you guys spend lately and keep doing this regularly to see the box get full very soon, hereby making you realize all the best moment in your life and yes they do happen quite  a lot.

2. Create the world around you, together!

Select one particular thing you both want and wish since a long time. Get together to make that happen!

It could be anything like buying a car a new home, or a simple dress. But this task would make you guys earn money, save, spend accordingly and all this and much more together.

3. Keep some time-off

The whole day and the entire week we keep looking dumbstruck on the tickling clock. Prioritize your care, maintain your bodies, go for a spa, rejuvenate and relax yourself together, unwind, all this much more, but together. It would make both of you become confident about your- self, the way you look and also offer you some alone and quite time together. This is would you more happy, productive and relaxed.

4. Stop being perfect

In the rat race of doing things in the best possible way always makes us feel disappointed, loose the track, over-work and then later on forces us to blame ourselves or the spouse for the results. However it’s better to put in your efforts but don’t drool over work on yourself trying to be just the best.

5. Take care of yourself

A happy person that make a happy relationship of a happy family, so it remains equally, or actually more important to keep yourself happy and content. Take some time out to groom you up, get a new haircut, or indulge in some shopping, read a book, take a shower. The catch is to do anything that makes you happy and makes you take care of your spouse in a better way.

Conclusion

It is easier to accomplish materialistic goals in life, however when things about relationship comes, we often feel bounded, don’t be in a relation just for the name, instead just try to once out I your soul and see the difference!

Top 5 things you need to do every day as a couple

You along with your partner are already committed to each other and you love doing things to stay together, strengthen this bond of love and make you feel connected to each other all the more.Making your connection and bond stronger by the years is the essence of every marriage. However with the increasing busy pace of life, work pressure, deadlines, demands etc, the time to make each other feel special and loved is just not on the list anymore!

This scenario and situation is indeed taking a toll on this wonderful relationship and the association of marriage is getting a shift. We offer a list of 7 distinct actions that should be cherished each and every day, sneaking some time out of your busy schedules and making space for each other, doing tiny things to make the other person feel loved and cherished.

5 things every couple should do:

1.Talk it out

Of course you always enjoy each other’s company; however you often forget to engage in the lovely talks that fulfill the gap you guys had all day long. You also get closer to the good and the awful parts of each other’s day, offer help to each other. Sometimes it’s not exactly a resolution we are looking for, we just need someone to hear us out and we‘re sorted, aren’t we?

2. Hug each other everyday

Hugging comes as a natural in couples who love each other. But it also offers numerous benefits too. An embrace offers a sense of safety, protection, makes you feel loves and also reduces the stress level. When you hug someone, we feel protected, and don’t feel alone anymore, no matter what stress we must be going through then. Hugging stimulates the release of numerous neurotransmitters in our brains like serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin. All these hormones help us feel happy, reduce the stress and makes us feel good about ourselves.

3. Forgive each other

There is no one perfect in life. As they say the grass always looks greener at the other end, similarly we always find the life o other better than ours, however this certainly is not true always and each individual has its own set of problems and limitations in life.

We tend to do mistakes and when we realize the same and feel sorry, it becomes equally imperative for the other partner to forgive. Not let going the issue of life and keeping them deep inside as grudges would just make you feel unhappy, alone and stressed out. Human is a social animal who definitely doesn’t want to stay alone. Not forgiving and punishing your spouse often leads to create a gap and rift between your marriage making you guys be distant with each other, Forgiving people releases the tension and allows you to make a new start.

4. Laugh out together

You must have often heard about laughter being the best medicine, similarly it is indeed the best therapy to heal your marriage as well. You do not really need a comic situation. However we strongly recommend you to maintain humor in your life, in the best of situation and share it with your partner.  Just laugh on your silly mistakes with your spouse, make him/her laugh on you etc. Laughter releases tension and offers an emotional bond of joy in you and your partner.

5. Dont forget to say the magical words

How often do you let your partner know that you love them, when was the last time you let them know how precious they were for you?

I’m sure you don’t even remember that, this is exactly where the modern people lack. They are so busy keeping in mind the deadlines, bill dates, numbers, figures, facts etc that they completely forget the importance and the potency to let your partner know that you Love them.

No matter what all actions you do for your spouse like taking them out, buying their needs, gifts, cook for them, do the laundry etc. But words carry enormous power in them and that leaves a greater impact on your relationship.