We all are living a stressed out and a rapid paced life.
There are a lot of deadlines that we need to meet on a daily basis. Keeping up
with the flying and evolving world around us, we have stopped thinking about
the real beauty of our lives. Going behind the materialistic aspects of life,
we have forgotten the real meaning of life and stopped enjoying our
relationships.
Lack of time, strength and zeal are some of the major
factors that affect the quality of the relations we have around us. This
doesn’t mean that we are apart, the love has gone or we just don’t like it
anymore, however we are lacking the expression which si yet again an extremely
imperative element that supports a great relation.
Coming late from work, running around the home chores,
kids, deadlines, cooking, grocery, bills, EMI and much more trap us strongly
and we tend to forget the real happiness lies un being together or rather being
happy together.
Marriage is a beautiful bond that connects us, gives a
meaning to our lives, while being a commitment that stays and gets stronger by
the year we spend with our loved ones.
Here are a few
tips that would add the spark and the zeal back in your life, while make sure to
follow them often:
1. Keep exploring
through each other and play around
When the know it all stage comes, things tend to get
monotonous, indeed, so get on exploring each other together, discover the new
interests and current state of minds of your partner. Keep a box and keep
adding the best moment you guys spend lately and keep doing this regularly to
see the box get full very soon, hereby making you realize all the best moment
in your life and yes they do happen quite
a lot.
2. Create the
world around you, together!
Select one particular thing you both want and wish since
a long time. Get together to make that happen!
It could be anything like buying a car a new home, or a
simple dress. But this task would make you guys earn money, save, spend
accordingly and all this and much more together.
3. Keep some
time-off
The whole day and the entire week we keep looking
dumbstruck on the tickling clock. Prioritize your care, maintain your bodies,
go for a spa, rejuvenate and relax yourself together, unwind, all this much
more, but together. It would make both of you become confident about your-
self, the way you look and also offer you some alone and quite time together.
This is would you more happy, productive and relaxed.
4. Stop being perfect
In the rat race of doing things in the best possible way
always makes us feel disappointed, loose the track, over-work and then later on
forces us to blame ourselves or the spouse for the results. However it’s better
to put in your efforts but don’t drool over work on yourself trying to be just the
best.
5. Take care of
yourself
A happy person that make a happy relationship of a happy
family, so it remains equally, or actually more important to keep yourself
happy and content. Take some time out to groom you up, get a new haircut, or
indulge in some shopping, read a book, take a shower. The catch is to do
anything that makes you happy and makes you take care of your spouse in a
better way.
Conclusion
It is easier to accomplish materialistic goals in life,
however when things about relationship comes, we often feel bounded, don’t be
in a relation just for the name, instead just try to once out I your soul and
see the difference!
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